*Excellent article by.   Dr.Alok Kar*

Years back, *poor illiterate  parents* produced
🔹 Scientists,
🔹 Accountants,
🔹 Lawyers,
🔹 Architects,
🔹 Professors..,  whom I will refer to as *Group 'A'*.

These *Group 'A'* Children struggled on their own after Primary 6 or Grade 12, to become notable personalities. Most of them
👉trekked to school *barefooted*
👉went to farms
👉fetched water and firewood
👉cared for domesticated animals
👉did some work including trading after school to survive.

Now Group 'A' ,who have now become Parents themselves are *producing  Group 'B'  Children*
These group B children are
🔹 helped in their homeworks or home assignments from nursery school through secondary schools to higher institutions.
🔹chauffeur driven to very expensive schools or are sent abroad to study. 
🔹they can watch movies from morning till dawn after school.
🔹 they are treated like baby kings and queens.
🔹they don't do any household chores.
🔹Food is put on the table for them,
🔹their plates are removed and washed by parents or house maids.
🔹They are given expensive cars and clothes,
🔹not forgetting *big pocket money to be wasted* !!!.
🔹Their parents help them in doing their assignments.
🤔 In spite of all these, only few can *speak* or *write* correctly. 😏

🤔Group 'A' Parents  cared for their own *parents* and *children*, Group 'B',their Children are still *struggling to find their feet at age 30+*.‼
🤔They find it difficult to do things on their own because they are used to being helped to think and doing things by Group 'A'. So they can't help themselves, their parents or the society. THEY ABANDON THEIR PARENTS IN THEIR BID TO ACQUIRE THE WORLD

😴 *Where do you belong*❓
🏮Reduce the pampering and the unnecessary help you offer your children.
🏮 Let your children *grow in wisdom, intelligence and strength*.
🏮Let them face the truth and the realities of life. Teach them to grow  to become *independent adults.* Teach them to
👉fear God,
👉respect  others and
👉develop confidence in themselves.
🤔Parents, discipline your children to become disciplined adults, *useful* and not *useless.*

Share with all ur near ones  & make a difference in their lives... 😊👍👍


  1. Hahaha....the writer certainly does not live in the 21st century or does not have children....if we were to let our kids go to school barefoot and fetch firewood etc we would probably be reported to child protective services these days. I think kids can speak and write properly . Some kids are even smarter and more qualified than us...
    Kids these days do not have it easy. What with high unemployment and very expensive housing . I most certainly do not chauffeur my kids or give them huge pocket money. So stop patronising us, poor parents .We are doing the best we can for our children...

    1. I 100% agree the blogger Doctor. Dr has put a reality.A very few think in this line but Dr has correctly spelled. There are children still going barefooted to school and collecting firewood other than school time.

  2. If "fear God" changed to "be responsible for their own actions" will be better.


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